14 September 2018
Controversial businessman Wicknell Chivayo has finally broken the silence following the videos posted by his wife last week on the Miss World Zimbabwe night.
In the videos, Chivayo’s wife Sonja Madzikanda revealed the marital problems that the couple is going through, infidelity as well as misunderstandings with her sisters in law.
Chivayo responded through a Facebook post which read:
‘LADIES HERE’S SOME VERY GOOD ADVICE FOR YOU…..
THIS WAS ESTABLISHED BY MRS MARTHA DE PURENEZ, WHO DIED AT THE AGE OF 104, AND SHE SPENT 82 YEARS IN MARRIAGE..SHE HAD THIS TO SAY.
“I know that young ladies will never agree with me, but whoever will implement this shall be the happiest of all and shall make a nice home; unless otherwise.”
1. The husband is always right
2. The husband is always the master of the family even if he doesn’t work
3. The wife must ask for permission from the husband before going in bed as well as before turning her back to him in bed.
4. If the husband beats the wife and then comes a visitor, the wife should smile as if nothing happened
5. The husband is still the master and has full control on all the operations even in bed
6. Even if the wife is right, Article number 1 takes over
7. The wife must never investigate the husband under any circumstances. Wife must focus and concentrate on being a good wife not a detective
8. The husband never lies, but he enlightens
9. When the husband is shouting, the wife keeps kneeling down without saying anything
10. The wife should always wait for approval from the husband before making any decision whatsoever in her life
11. The husband never comes home late, he is delayed somewhere in a meeting
12. The husband never goes out on the off day but he is attending a family meeting
13. The wife waits for her husband with her ideas and takes those of her husband when he is back home ( rule 10 applies)
14. The wife never works too hard during the day to avoid her getting tired in the night
15. The wife never goes to her husband’s office only when it comes an urgent case or an emergency
16. The wife is not allowed to do any kind of wreck less expenses without consulting the husband even if it’s her own money
17. All the misunderstandings have to be solved by only the two of you in the bedroom without a witness and this should always work to the husband’s advantage
18. The wife never refuses eating, even if she is annoyed
19. The wife has no orders to give to her husband, but she receives these from him
20. The wife must respect the husband’s orders carefully
21. The wife has to take limit of her jealousy and not show it in public
22.. The wife ever pays visits to her parents as well as to her in-laws only on permission from the husband and under any circumstances, she should be accompanied by the husband
23. The wife never goes out without permission from her husband’
Most of the points he made in his subliminal post included what his wife did last Saturday.
Chivayo could not be reached for a comment.