10 January 2017
‘. . . Olinda has shamed the CHIDEME FAMILY’
‘. . . I can’t say sorry to her’
TRENDING rapper Desmond “Stunner” Chideme broke down in tears and walked out shortly before the conclusion of his Facebook Live interview with Ruvheneko Parirenyatwa saying he is hurt by his wife Olinda’s decision to expose their issues to the public.
H-Metro was in the room as Stunner and Ruvheneko went live on Facebook.
After starting off confidently, and pleading his love for Olinda and commitment to their marriage, Stunner could not contain his real feelings and emotions concerning his wife’s actions on social media over the past week.
“I stayed in the house to work things out to say look, my wife, this is what it is, but if i didn’t care for women, if i didn’t care for her i would have been like ‘Ah sha ndezvekwako izvo.
“Ndakapackerwo ma bags ndichiedza kuti pamwe ndichanzi dzoka but ndakangosiya ndichipacker mabags angu.
“So I did all that but I’m still in the house, I’m still gonna go back and everything . . . and now look i got tears in my eyes,” said stunner before Ruvheneko asked him why he was crying.
“Cause all this, this is crazy! The way she reacted . . .” replied Stunner before he broke down and continued with tears rolling down his cheeks.
“Handisati ndamboenda kumba kwemunhu, handisati ndambokumbira chii. But Zimbabweans hate me! And i know that for a fact! I got friends that i hang with that hate me, but i talk with them because at the end of the day i have to talk to someone. Ndogara ndiri ndega, in my house and everything . . . so all this that is happening . . . You asked me if i love my wife and i said yes because i”m trying to think there is hope but the honest truth is that I’m hurt.
“This has never . . . I’ve been married before. My (ex) wife wronged me and i wronged her but no one knows about it, not even my mother knows why I broke up with my first wife. I don’t know how my mom feels about my wife right now.
“Because zvaakaita kubuda achishatisa zita rekwaChideme. Ndakuita kunge inini i have gained so much nekuti munhu atenga bhutsu dze US$25. Hazvina chazvinoshamisira, I’m wearing clothes that i bought and I’m looking good.
“I’ve counseled a lot of people, vamwe vanondibata pa snap chat vachiti ndiri kunzwaiso ndodii? Trust me, if she had packed her bags (to go), trust me dai ndiri kuumburuka mumavhu ndichiti nmukadzi wangu sorry. But for what she did, I can’t say sorry to her cause she took revenge.
“We are at war in my house and I’m still trying to fight to say look we are here and I want this to work not because of anything but cause I saw her and I said I like this person, togara tichiimba old school, we are singing Aaliyah and what what, that’s my person.
“But this, kunzi murume adaiso, I have done that. I’m supposed to come to you and say sorry but now when you tell people on Facebook . . . I didn’t cheat on her on Facebook.
“This is the kind of action – to all those feminists that you talking about vane mari what what – this action is what will make murume anogara kuGreystone Park abatwe kumbare uko akagara mudish rezeng, cause akunzi baba mauya makadii. Because now you think yeah I have got this (and you make demands saying) ndiigere chii chii, It’s not even supposed to be like that.
“You all don’t like me, you don’t like my music it’s ok but let me do what i do, I’m not doing it for you, I have five people out there that like what I sing. Let me just sing for them,” said Stunner before walking out on the interview as Ruvheneko concluded.
Earlier in the interview Stunner had said he loves Olinda and they are still trying to work things out and even woke up under the same sheets yesterday.
He said he has only known Olinda for a year and is still trying to figure her out before adding that most of the things she has said on Facebook have been said in anger in an attempt to hurt him and he understands.
Stunner said he is not ashamed of the fact that Olinda bought him things and makes more money than him as it is normal for marriage mates to buy each other things.